Of course they think it's theirs to manage.

[There's no small amount of bitterness to the thought, but he hasn't risen to rage levels. This is just... a minor setback. An obstacle he'll have to overcome. He won't let this become an issue that angers him instead of brightening his mood like it has been.]

I don't care "who's in the wrong," and I don't care what you do or don't say to them. I'm not letting this fall into anyone else's hands and that's it.