And you've explicitly rejected Ben Solo, but that hardly changes anything.

[Since he's still Ben to her and to Han, at least, just as Anakin is still Vader, even if he might currently not be wearing that black armor Vader is known for.]

The Force. So what did the Force tell you was happening earlier today?

[She follows that up with some estimation of just how long ago her confrontation with Anakin was. Because surely that couldn't have been missed through the Force.]

And he's more your grandfather than Anakin Skywalker ever will be.